The Looking Glass Self

The term “looking-glass self” was introduced by Charles H. Cooley. It refers to an individual's self-perception shaped by how they believe others perceive them, much like a reflection in a mirror or looking glass.

People imagine how they appear to others, interpret the perceived judgments, and experience emotions in response, such as pride or shame.

Additionally, many individuals are more likely to express praise than criticism, offering compliments while withholding negative remarks.

As a result, people may overestimate others' evaluations of them, leading to an inflated self-image.

For example, individuals often perceive themselves as more physically attractive than they are because they overestimate how favorably others view them.

Furthermore, research suggests that the origin of self is rooted in social contexts.

For instance, children are primarily influenced by their parents and family, followed by their playmates.

As individuals grow, they may also be influenced by friends, teachers, religious leaders, colleagues, and social media.

Finally, feedback from these connections continuously shapes and reinforces self-image throughout life.