7.1
The Sense of Self: Reflected Self-Appraisal and Social Comparison
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Q1: How does reflected self-appraisal shape a person's sense of self?
Reflected self-appraisal means your sense of self is based on your perceived beliefs about what others think of you. When someone reacts to your behavior—like laughing at your joke—you mirror that reaction and develop a corresponding self-perception. This process, called the looking glass self, means others' reactions function as a mirror reflecting back your identity.
Q2: What is the working self-concept and how does context affect it?
The working self-concept is the subset of self-knowledge activated in a particular social context. You may retrieve different characteristics depending on who is present: displaying humor with friends but seriousness around a professor. This demonstrates that people predictably change aspects of their identity based on situational cues and social expectations.
Q3: How do socialization agents like family and peers influence self-development?
Family members, friends, teachers, and peer groups are primary socialization agents who shape your sense of self through daily interaction and feedback. Parents' encouragement and celebration of accomplishments embed core identity traits—like being an artist—into your self-concept. Peer groups provide additional socialization experiences outside the family, helping adolescents develop identity separate from parental influence.
Q4: What is the difference between upward and downward social comparison?
In downward social comparison, you compare yourself to someone less skilled or accomplished to feel better about yourself, though this limits growth. Upward social comparison involves comparing yourself to someone more capable, which can motivate improvement and learning. Both types influence self-perception, but upward comparison better supports personal development and skill advancement.
Q5: How do construal processes contribute to building your sense of self?
Your sense of self is constructed through construal processes—the way you interpret and make meaning from social interactions and contexts. You actively construct your identity based on influential sources including family, friends, teachers, and social environments. This narrative of self is not fixed but continuously shaped by how you interpret others' reactions and social situations.
Q6: Why might downward social comparison be harmful to personal growth?
Downward social comparison can feel good temporarily but impedes your ability to improve and learn from others. By comparing yourself only to those less capable, you miss opportunities to develop new skills or gain knowledge from more experienced individuals. This strategy limits motivation for growth and prevents you from reaching your full potential.
Q7: How do institutional agents like schools and media contribute to socialization?
Formal institutions such as schools teach behavioral norms like teamwork and scheduling, while mass media distributes messages about societal expectations and values. Schools spend significant time socializing children into cultural norms beyond academic subjects. Media influences social standards through constant exposure to messages about material and nonmaterial culture, shaping how people view themselves and others.