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Social Foundations of Self II: The Generalized Other
According to George Herbert Mead, as children progress beyond the game stage, they develop a more comprehensive understanding of societal rules and no…
George Herbert Mead proposed that children develop a deeper understanding of societal rules and norms as they move beyond the game stage.
Repeated participation in organized activities, such as those of a school or sports team, helps children recognize that their actions contribute to a larger, interdependent group.
Through this experience, children develop "the generalized other"—an awareness of the shared attitudes and expectations within organized groups.
As children consider what the group expects of them, they adopt the role of the generalized other, such as raising their hands before speaking in the classroom and regulating their behavior, which helps them resist impulsive urges like shouting out answers.
Children incorporate shared attitudes into their self-concepts but may misinterpret contradictory views. For example, a child who is encouraged to speak up at home but is silenced in class may struggle to know when to speak.
Likewise, when new perspectives contradict their self-concepts or experiences, children may resist accepting them, such as a boy rejecting being called weak by recalling a time he stood up for a friend to show courage.
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Q1: What is the generalized other according to George Herbert Mead?
The generalized other is an awareness of shared attitudes and expectations within organized groups that children develop through repeated participation in activities like school or sports teams. As children consider what the group expects of them, they adopt the role of the generalized other, enabling them to regulate behavior and resist impulsive urges like shouting out answers in class.
Q2: How do organized activities help children develop the generalized other?
Consistent participation in organized activities helps children recognize that their actions contribute to a larger, interdependent group. Through these experiences, children internalize shared attitudes and expectations, developing self-discipline and the ability to regulate behavior according to group norms. This process refines their understanding of societal rules and enables them to exercise self-control.
Q3: Why might children struggle when receiving contradictory messages about behavior?
Children may struggle when they receive contradictory feedback from different social contexts. For example, a child encouraged to speak up at home but silenced in class may become confused about when to speak. Inconsistent messages complicate self-concept development and make it difficult for children to know which behavioral expectations apply in different situations.
Q4: How do children resist negative labels that conflict with their self-image?
Children often reject negative labels when they contradict their existing self-views or personal experiences. A boy labeled as weak may recall a time he stood up for a friend to reinforce his belief in his own courage. Direct experience can protect against the impact of conflicting evaluations from others, allowing children to maintain their self-concept despite opposing social feedback.
Q5: What role does role-taking play in how children interpret others' expectations?
Role-taking enables children to understand group expectations by mentally adopting the perspective of the generalized other. However, limited role-taking abilities can lead to response misinterpretation and inaccurate assessments of how others form impressions. As children develop more sophisticated role-taking skills, they become better at recognizing and responding to the shared attitudes and expectations of organized groups.
Q6: How does the generalized other influence self-regulation in children?
The generalized other allows children to exercise self-discipline by internalizing group expectations and norms. When children adopt the role of the generalized other, their actions increasingly reflect the viewpoint of the group, helping them resist external pressures and impulsive tendencies. This internalization of shared attitudes shapes their identities based on collective values and enables behavioral regulation through strategies of self presentation.
Q7: How does direct personal experience affect children's acceptance of social feedback?
Direct personal experience can reinforce self-beliefs and reduce the influence of contradictory social feedback. When children have concrete memories of their own behavior that align with their self-concept, they are more likely to resist negative evaluations from others. This protective effect shows how personal experience and self-concept interact to shape how children interpret and respond to reflected appraisals from their social environment.